Friday, 9 May 2014

"Papa" !!
That happiness when you return from a hectic day from office and some one comes running to you and her voice fades away all your tiredness.

(untying shoes)...!!!
Whats up Dear ?? How are you doing ?? 

"Oh common " came a strong voice from inside. "You are late as usual" . 
Is it the right time to come home ? Little Eisha is almost tired waiting for you and so am i .


And that moment you have to be silent. Don't ever think of using the proverb "Silence says more than words"
Better keep it till the dinner is over.

It's been a daily routine for me. Arriving late as always than her. But that's called life. But what raised exponentially is the love between us.
The love that started some way like this :-

Flashback  few years back : My story of a Long Distance Relationship
Many people have their own views and opinions about a long distance relationship. But it's better to draw conclusion when you are into it. Just like you can't judge a shoe from its look, wearing it some times help you more.

Love is not the way it happens before.With the more and simpler ways to connect people together from all over the world, you can know a lot about them. Soon enough, you are learning more about this other person than you know about your next door neighbor, which results in a strong, deep connection. 


Have Read it some where "A man is someone who takes care of his business and his woman".
And if you are the right guy to take care of the saying, I think happiness is all yours.


You meet someone online, who could live thousand miles away from you, and you begin telling that person all about yourself. Why not? no real risk involved. If the person doesn't like what they are hearing about you, who cares. It's not as if you are ever going to meet the person anyway, you don't even know them. But what happens when that same person enjoys everything you have to say, and begins telling you about themselves in return? Before you know it, you have told your entire life story, including things your best friend's don't even know, to someone you considered a stranger a few days ago. You find yourself hopping online a lot more often, in hopes of chatting it up with your new friend. In a short period of time, you begin talking to this person more than you talk to anyone else in your life, including those you see often. A strong attachment/bond begins to form between the two of you, and you are quickly falling in love. Now what?

You have fallen for that mesmerizing smile and you are ready to die for it.

And Don't worry about those thousand miles what i have mentioned.
It's not like the Coulomb's law in physics where you have to fear about the distance. 

Jab chemistry acchi ho toh then kaahe ka Physics se darr ??

But it do biologically prove something as well.

"If the two charges have the same sign, the electrostatic force between them is repulsive; if they have different sign, the force between them is attractive."

Hope you have applied little Biology with Physics this time.

Getting out of the theories, emotional connection are the base of any relations. You can be physically attracted to any random person you meet, but overtime, that attraction is going to fade and you will realize there is nothing there emotionally. You will come to realize that it is much easier to fall in love with someone through conversation than it is to fall in love with someone you are physically with. But can a long distance relationship actually work out in the end?  

Yes, No / May be ?? 
But it is a big Yes for me.

When you talk about love, it should be unconditional. So why a name to a relationship. A relationship is always a relationship. Then why the need of putting a phrase "long distance" to it though we know we all belong to the same planet. Not like a extra ordinary love story where we talk about galaxies.

Every Relationships require a lot of patience, will power, and effort on both partners. If you have what it takes, then A Long Distance Relationship will definitely work in your favor, and may even end up being the greatest love story you will ever have. 

So love the way it is. Love it your way !!

"Dinner is ready" !!! Again that voice reminds me that i can't be late this time.
                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                             Love  you                                                                                                                                 Chini